As many of you know, MFI deals with many plastic surgeons and media professionals who constantly scrutinize the website. For that reason, we have strict rules for the public areas of the website, which only allow content suitable for all audiences. What you post or discuss privately is none of our business, but there have been several instances in the past where we have gotten bad media publicity because of a few choice blogs. More importantly, there have been situations where a surgeon has refused to accept payment for a ladies surgery because of some blogs that were posted with vulgar content. Since that completely defeats the purpose of the website, (paying surgeons for the implants) we need to enforce the rules of the blogs and public photos to makes sure one person does not have an adverse affect on another person’s surgery. It’s not fair to others if a few bad apples ruin people’s chances of having their dreams fulfilled.

We need everyone’s help enforcing the public content rules. If you see a violation, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We are all responsible for keeping MFI clean!

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  • 1
    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:03 am

    Thank you for posting this…especially the last line.

    I just wish people would take the time to read.

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    Jason: MyFreeImplants Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:08 am

    And it’s important to point out that you can all still have fun on the site while still helping to maintain a clean public profile! :)

    You wouldn’t want some future employer to one day find a raunchy blog of yours that you made publicly available! So keep that sort of stuff private. It protects us, it protects you, it protects everyone else!

    Thanks!

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    CCR Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:11 am

    I agree, MFI is not a porn site, but a lot of sexual explicit and nude material is distributed on this site. 95-99% of time privately. Even if you don’t see it a lot of sexual explicit and nude material is distributed here.

    So saying it is completely not a porn site is wrong. Here is porn and porn is downloaded. Since September 2005 when i joined it has been so, over 3½ years. There has been periods with more porn and periods with less porn or sexual explicit and nude material.

    MFI as community can be a lot of things, because we all are different. Some benefactors – as i have read in comments in the news section and also in benefactors blogs in the past – have said they are here for the porn that is offered. Others are here to make online connections of some kinds and have chats and messaging about all kind of subjects and do not want pictures at all (i wonder if they would like it without any pictures at in the ladies profiles?). Reasons for benefactors to be a member here range widely.

    The reason why any lady joins is always the same: To achieve their goal and then also to make connection to achieve this goal. It has been said before by a famous benefactors that no lady has made it to HoF with only pictures and made it with only connections with the benefactors. It is a mixture of both, some do more connections and less pictures (and videos) others with more pictures and less connections. Just a very rough generalization.

    So pictures and videos of any kind are distributed on MFI. It is when those 1-5% that bubbles up to the surface or public it turns to problems. And i agree, that no sexual explicit and nude material should be in the public. Not because reporters will scrutinize MFI or because conservative surgeons will refuse money from MFI. Simple because i think it is more fair to any lady that want to achieve her goal here according to her limits of doing sexual explicit and nude material. The reporters scrutinizing MFI or the surgeons refusing payment from MFI can and will find out that a lot of sexual explicit and nude material is distributed on MFI. I would guess it takes them around 10-20 minutes to find that out after have signed up. A digging reporter would definitely do that and MFI has experienced that in the past and a surgeon concerned if he/she should be associated with MFI will most likely also do the same. I would not just go for what is on the public. But even the public pages such as “How it works” , Fan Sign Pages (yes they are public) and the front/index page of MFI would lead me to think more is going on here than i see. So why would not a reporter or a surgeon do the same and join just to see if it is so?

    One problem i see when these 1-5% of sexual and nude explicit bubbles up to the public is not the default pic or the blog in question. It is all the blogs posted to try to keep MFI clean. The “Cum see my pussy” blog will be deleted by the management, but all the blogs about keeping MFI clean and telling ladies don’t do this or that, and saying “this is not a porn site”, all these blogs are not deleted. Again the reporters and surgeons will be lead to think, that there are porn or sexual explicit and nude material on MFI. They are not stupid. And as it is such sensitive thing should they even be lead to think that it is sexual explicit and nude material on MFI? It is possible, that all the blogs trying to correct the problem or help ladies with what is allowed and not, do defeat themselves and have opposite effect, as these blogs will never be deleted and can be found by anyone, members and non-members to read, and especially when they contain strong words and naming ladies on this site in strong and derogatory words would it not just be the same the inappropriate blog or default pic did?

    One action to do is to report it and see if the management deem it as inappropriate and not blog about it. And even then when reporting it you might find out that your opinion is not the same as the management’s and nothing will be deleted and removed. I have found out that with the thong pics. All thong pics are not inappropriate for the management. I thought they were but suddenly the management defend a thong pic which i thought was against the standards of MFI. Nevertheless i believe when you see something inappropriate is to tell the management and make them decide and not talk in public blogs about what you see as a problem because that can have another effect than you desired.

    But one thing i am clear of is that keeping the public clean doesn’t make the distribution of sexual explicit and nude material less on MFI. Just hidden and for any one who signs up to find out. But when it is kept in private it is not a problem? Well, that is another blog at another time.

    I agree, MFI is not a porn site, but a lot of sexual explicit and nude material is distributed on this site.

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    J Coverman Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:32 am

    I think reporting violations has it’s place, but that’s after the fact and by the time things get looked at, the default pic (or whatever) may have changed, making it a ‘my word vs. theirs’ type situation.

    Maybe all of us when logging-in should have a briefly visible intermediary page that displays a random item from the terms before taking us to our profiles.

    I’m not really crazy about plastering rules all over the site, but I think most of the violations are either copycats, or people that don’t much look at the ‘informative’ pages of the site, like blogs and, ahem, the Terms. So the violations are clear to see; something to counter that should be clear to see, too.

    If a young lady is asking in the blogs whether her default of her nude is okay, clearly the Terms are not being read and retained….

    As for keeping MFI clean, I also seem to pick up a lot of dropped gum wrappers and empty energy drink cans — you know who you are….

  • 5
    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:36 am

    This is why following the rules here and keeping blogs and defaults PG is so important….This is my true story and anyone that knows me…knows what I have been through….for over a year now.

    Monday the 4th was good and bad for me….Well…I had my final consultation last Monday so I can FINALLY schedule my surgery soon. Over all it went ok I guess…I just can’t stand his receptionist or the things they said! I have had alot of issues with getting my surgery done with this surgeon but issues and all aside he is a fantastic surgeon….and the only one I feel comfortable using in my state.

    Allow me to explain…My surgeon happens to be the Deacon of a babtist church here in town and is morally having an issue with excepting payment from MFI….due to the nature of the blogs and people’s profile photos. I have been on a rollercoater of yes’s and no’s from this surgeon about being affiliated at all with this site. First time I had a consult with him he said yes…he would do my surgery and except payment..then after viewing the site later that day…he changed his mind about it because he deemed it a porn site and in his position he felt dirty excepting payment from this site….I found that out about a week after the initial yes I was given. I was crushed…absolutely crushed!

    So after a year of thinking this would never happen for me…I went to see him one last time (last monday) and see if maybe I could talk to him again and get a different answer during my consultation.

    I got to his office, checked in and waited for them to call me back for my consult. Once they called me back I went in and sat down and his receptionist asked me if I planned to still pay for surgery using Myfree whatever…I said Myfreeimplants…yes..I do plan to still use that form of payment..she immediately piped in and said “well you shouldn’t of wasted your time today…he isn’t gonna do your surgery. He is a babtist Deacon and has moral issues with doing this for you…and excepting payment from a porno site”

    I immediately tried to explain that the site isn’t a porn site and that the actions of some girls should not affect me. Then I asked to talk to the doctor directly…which I sat there for about 20 minutes after she stormed out to get him for me. The doctor came in a few minutes later and started my consult and we spoke about what the receptionist told me…he said he would do my surgery but never ever be affiliated with this site in any fashion whatsoever because it is a porn site. I told him “please do not condemn me because of what others on this site do”..so we talked a bit more and ended my consult.

    I left feeling happy and torn apart all at once. I hate that he and many others view MFI in this way..but he’s right…it looks like a porn site and most of you act like porn stars. what if you were in my shoes? How would you feel? Wouldn’t you be embarrassed? I know I am.

    Jason is coming to my rescue(and I thank him dearly) and helping me with this…so yes..I will have my surgery very soon I hope as I should be able to start scheduling everything Tues or Wed and will keep everyone posted.

    But honestly…I am not as excited as I should be because in a sense I was put in the same bracket with porn stars and whores (from the mouth of others) and that doesn’t feel good at all. I always try to be classy and sexy…not slutty, overeager or raunchy.

    Think about who your actions may be hurting here…could be a woman who is trying to be repaired after breast removal due to breast cancer, mommies who need the help, Me….as it already has been hurting me or worst of all…it could be hurting YOU!

    So this is my Happy/not so happy story about my consultation last Monday…and I promise you I have not exaggerated at all…just wanted everyone to know that I feel cheap now because of others actions that are shown publicly.

    Oh…and for those that care…I am going with 415cc in the left and 430cc in the right…which will be a big D. I’m going with saline and under the muscle. incision will be around my areola.

    I will keep you posted when I get actual dates.

    Ps…and I know some of you are probably asking..”why are you still wanting to use this surgeon after all this run around?” Well..the answer is…I trust him, his work and he is fantastic! oh…and I didn’t see his receptionist when I was done…wonder where that bitch went? Hmmmm……

    Jayda

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    Hot Lil Mama Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:51 am

    Soooo glad Jayda is finally getting her surgery! Congrats Girlie! =) You have waited FAR too long!

    Next issue: If we are cleaning things up… including the public blogging and default pix… Should we NOT clean up the contests???

    Jay and/or Jason – I beg of you… go look at the contests posted for the ladies to enter!!!! Can you imagine sitting on THIS side of things… looking at THOSE contests… and thinking… what in the heck have I got myself into??? It’s more than discouraging for your average girl. And to add to it… most girls will enter those contests out of desperation to get more in their boobie bank.

    Can nothing be done about those contests?

    I hate to be one to say… Add more rules, add more rules!!! Cause, I hate rules!!! They make me feel all restricted and unable to be myself at times… but still I have found a way to abide by the rules.

    Something MUST be done about those contests!!! I beg of you to go look at them… put yourself in a newbies’ position… and think about how you would feel. I know each model has an OPTION of whether or not to enter the contests, but still. Most of them are just gross guys. Seriously.

    The truth of the matter is this – During a model’s time here she will be bombarded by some very sexual content. Some things you will see that you did not ask for and would rather NOT see. Somehow you find a way to develope this thick layer of skin to protect you. You can overlook the crap after awhile, but for the new girls joining the site, it sends the wrong message and many leave before they have developed the ability to keep moving and don’t look. The contests would be a fantastic place to start CLEANING THINGS UP!!!

    Stepping off my soapbox… Very sorry if I offended anyone, but if you know me… then you know… I gotta call it like I see it!

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    CCR Says: May 08, 2009 at 9:58 am

    LOL at J Coverman last line.

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    Larry Says: May 08, 2009 at 10:05 am

    CCR makes a very good point here and I agree with him.

    The biggest thing I have a problem with is the proselytizing by some members about what is considered objectionable. Yes surgeons will reject some payments from MFI but if their individual beliefs make them feel that way then there is nothing that can be done to change it, having certain members make it their “mission” to report people sounds more to me like witch-hunting.

    I too have been on the site for some time as well and what CCR says is true, it is always there and if you dig deep enough you will find it. Those complaining in the public blogs actually make it even more noticable than just reporting the offenders, so in effect its the complainers themselves that are helping the narrow-minded decide that MFI is a porn site.

    Porn is a very subjective definition as well, what one considers objectionable can easily be seen as just sexy or erotic to another. In the end we decide for ourselves what our limits are, if you have a problem with something, report it and go on your way. Stop proselytizing to others about it and let the ones who actually run the site deal with the resolution.

    As I have always said I may not agree with what you say or do but I will fight tooth and nail to protect your right to do so.

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    tiger Says: May 08, 2009 at 10:17 am

    I have to say i completely agee with hotlilmama about the contests, they are totaly degrading and if my benefactors hadnt been so good to me, god knows!…i do know some of the guys at times do try to put up decent contests! but they seem to be out numbered at times…….i here what your saying CCR but i dont agree with this place being a porn site that wasnt my experience! Jay the girls should have as much fun as possible without all of us having to read how horny they are!…..i’m not even going to write what i have seen……*eyes popping out* lol…. i have been shocked at some of the stuff i have read at times, mind you, saying that, are they always aware that all of us on mfi are reading their blogs…..just a thought!…..but i am in total support of cleaning up the blogs…..and as you know i was refused surgery by a surgeon as he did not want to be associated with this place and i was devestated…..so clean up the blogs please!

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    tiger Says: May 08, 2009 at 10:33 am

    OOOOh just a thought! what about a filter for the blogs? so when certain sexually explicit words come up the blogs arent published and dont appear in the public blogging area! just a thought….:0)

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    Larry Says: May 08, 2009 at 10:41 am

    Actually tiger that is a great idea. It would be fairly simple to set up a filtering system that would track certain words or phrases and if it catches them it would just post as private and keep it out of the public area

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    Glory Says: May 08, 2009 at 10:52 am

    I agree that the default pics and the public blogs should have the content that was meant to be there. Meaning a nice face shot and well, we know what the blog should be.

    As many of you know, I am a second timer on here. When I was trying to find a doctor the first time around and I mentioned the site. Of course, being curious he came and checked the place out. When I talked to him again he told me that he could not help me because of the things he saw in those blogs. He was even able to quote things and mentioned the name of the girl who blogged it. As you can imagine I was mortified. I never did get to use that doctor either. I think in part it had something to do with how I approached him about MFI. The second doctor and the one I used I used a different approach and he was the one to do my surgery.I told him I was using a third party finance company. Anyways, I understand the upset for the girls who have this problem and how it feels too. I don’t know how it can be solved because there are always going to be problems with it…its a cycle I have noticed on here. I just wish there was a more efficient way to take care of it.

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    Jim (39387) Says: May 08, 2009 at 11:24 am

    My two cents on the basics: why should the community police the site? In real world terms, I pay taxes (up-charge on message credits, or 19% on donations), and these taxes should be used for services.

    All it takes is for the mayors (Jay and Jason) to spend 15 minutes reading through the blogs, just like we do, to see the issues, or spend a few minutes going through the first few pages of “The Girls” tab to weed out offenders with default pics against the rules. But just deleting the pics is like giving parking tickets daily. The girls constantly break the rules, pushing the boundaries, with only the threat of a slap on the hand. There are many who made it to the HOF with wads of parking tickets, and this seriously irritates those women who respect the rules. Give a few tickets, but have that threat of of being able to put a boot on the car (suspend the repeat offenders).

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 11:41 am

    The contests are absolutely horrid! Most get their content and NEVER donate..so guess what? Now they have all these goodies and you get nothing…

    I understand Larry wanting to fight tooth and nail for people’s rights…but what you are fighting against here on MFI…are the rules. Save that fight for the real world..not a site that has these ruless that is supposed to help ladies instead of hindering them in some cases.

    If people can’t respect and follow the rules..that is breach of contract with MFI in my opinion and maybe they don’t belong here.

    I also like Tiger’s idea…maybe that would be a great idea. If people didn’t break the rules here…There would be no blogs about breaking said rules or sharing our stories of getting put down and being belittled for being on this site.

    Maybe we HOFers and others blog about the crap on here so that surgeons and such will see that there are people here that aren’t acting like porn stars and want this to be a clean place to come and be proud of.

    I hide the fact that I am on this site from many many people..because alot of women and men here make it embarrassing to have the blogs up…or browsing through friends to see who all is there, They have their dicks so proudly diplayed and talking dirty…I wouldn’t want a child to walk in the room while I am browsing around on here…or my family for that matter.

    I WILL and DO report every single photo that I believe is inappropriate. That goes for blogs too. sorry if that gets you suspended or deleted…not my problem. People have been trying to stress this point on here for a long time..but some still seem not to have enough respect to read or follow rules.

    Some girls and guys here have changed their defaults and made a conscience effort of cleaning up the blogs…thank you. You are the ones that are making the effort to ensure everyone’s happiness/success here.

    One girl changed here nude pic..then today has that same nude pic up again…I was so proud of her..but now she shows her true colors…that she doesn’t care about anyone but herself. I did report her today.

    So you see…if we all work together and actually give a damn about what others have had to go through…and clean up the defaults and blogs…this may just one day…be somewhere I can come to and be proud of again..but not so much right now.

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 11:46 am

    Ps…thank you Hot lil mama!! I have always tried to keep up with you since you live so close to me…it’s nice to have a neighbor on here.

    LOL…FAR too long doesn’t even cover it..I am just thrilled now!

    Smooches girlie! Congrats to you as well!

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    Jay: MyFreeImplants Says: May 08, 2009 at 12:04 pm

    Why should the community police the site? For the same reasons citizens report crimes in the real world. Police cannot be everywhere and see everything. Hundreds of sets of eyes are better than two.

    If you want to help keep the public areas clean than great. If not, no problem. You’re not required to.

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    Atriphene Says: May 08, 2009 at 12:06 pm

    I totally agree about the contests! I barely even glance at them any more. :(

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    CCR Says: May 08, 2009 at 1:16 pm

    Yes, they will see that people here do not like what is going on and what is under the surface, but they will also understand that there are sexual explicit and nude material distributed on the site.

    My point is when they – who are scrutinizing and are conservative and sensitive of certain content – then they would still care if it is underneath the surface. Because the offer tabs do often tell what kind of content a lady is offering. it is often a menu and a prize list, which for me make it basically as an adult web site.

    Personally i have never understood why the offer tab was added as feature as it do emphasize the “trade something for donations”. A reporter need just to check a few profiles’ offer tabs to find the really sexual explicit and nude material traded for money.

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 1:19 pm

    I have to agree with CCR about the offer tab…while it is good for some reasons…it does imply that women have to trade for donations which is very intimidating for the women who chose not to sell themselves for a buck.

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    Larry Says: May 08, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    Is there a way that tab can be made visible only for women on the benefactors friends list? We know that trading of pictures goes on for donations, whether its a sale or whatever. Its part of the site, however I still think going too far one way to appease a small moral minority out there might be overkill.

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    Jim (39387) Says: May 08, 2009 at 1:51 pm

    Jay, in real world terms, police do “walk the beat” and “drive through the neighborhood” as well. During the period you posted your response alone, I could see 4 profile pictures against the rules on the first page of girls ALONE.

    The point you seemed to have missed as well was there is no penalty for consistent disregard to these rules, because as Jason once stated in comments like these, “There are rules, and there are terms. Break the terms, and you get suspended or terminated. Break rules is not as big of an issue, so we do not suspend or terminate.”

    There are so many reasons why people are leaving the neighborhood, or spending more time in other neighborhoods. If the police did a better job of actually cleaning the element off the streets, instead of the weak slaps on the hand, it would help the perception issue. Your community has spent a good amount of time over the past year trying to help, and reporting, yet it seems to be getting worse.

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    Christy Says: May 08, 2009 at 1:58 pm

    I would love the contests to be private somehow…they absolutely horrify me. Truely disgusting.

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    Curvy Alissa HOF Says: May 08, 2009 at 1:58 pm

    Well Im proud to be on my “mission” whether some like it or not.Ive alreadly wrote to Jason and told him that Im helping watch the blogs.I feel like as a longstanding member that it is my right and Im tired of all the mess in the blogs. I miss the MFI of old. There was happiness in the blogs, support, and when a lady made HOF everyone was soooooo happy and now when a girl makes it..well its barely noticed. I dont feel bad one bit for helping police this site.I am not on a witchhunt.Far from it. I care about these girls and I dont want to see them lose thousands of hardearned money for a mistake.Trust me I try to find a bene to tell the girl before I got off and report. But some girls choose to ignore and keep posting sexually explicit photos and raunchy photots. Like the J’s said…..They cant watch all the time and if some of us can help then so be it. Im proud to help the site and make it a fun and exciting place like it once was and not a porn classified ads section.Like Ive said before you can be a..Lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets.That applies to MFI.You can be a lady publicly and do your thing behind the scenes if need be.We are dont want to hear about others sexual conquests.If I offended anyone sorry but Im going to be honest.

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    CCR Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:03 pm

    Jay: So it is only the ladies on the site that are criminals? You as business owner have chosen to have the ladies blog public for non members to read but not benefactors blogs. So ladies are forced to have their blogs displayed; yes i know they are informed that they should put certain content in private blogs and many do it right. But are they informed that the public blogs wit appropriate content are readable for anyone, members and non-members? As far as i know they are not.

    But, Jay, turned it around some, aren’t we – the benefactors – the true criminals asking for sexual explicit and nude material, pushing it, treating the ladies disrespectful and so forth. i have heard so many stories from ladies being treated out right bad, but there are no rule enforced to stop this. Just a block button to make us go to next lady and prey on her and next and next and next.

    Constantly every enforced rule is put on the ladies’ shoulders and they ladies are to be blamed and punished, yet we are here to help them to achieve a goal of new breasts. Why not start enforcing rules on benefactors who out right treat ladies as adult actresses and similar?

    Even if i think i have the answer i won’t give it to you, i want to listen to what you have to say about it.

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    Curvy Alissa HOF Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:08 pm

    CCR you are correct! I dont think it should just be the ladies who are reprimanded.I understand men spending the money on this site but the reason they come here is for the ladies. Men who prey on women here and cheat and lie should be in trouble.Men who arent following the default pic rule should get in trouble as well.Not all girls here want to be treated like porn stars.To each their own but something needs to be done.

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    Larry Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:18 pm

    Report all you want but expect me to report violations as well for personal attacks and comments against others on this site. If you do not agree with something that is proven to be a violation of the rules then report it and move on, enough with the blogging and calling people names through blogs, Yes I have reported those as well.

    There needs to be a set standard of what is acceptable and what is not with nothing open to interpretation because in 2 months down the road we will go through this all over again. Just because you have made it into HoF doesn’t give you the right to call others names like sluts and whores because you do not agree with them. You want to do that, keep it in your PRIVATE blogs like some are fond of telling others to do.

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:19 pm

    Well call me on a “mission” as well..because I have been reporting people whenever the situation calls for it.

    There is a girl who just blogged and has a nude default! Is it really that goddamn hard to wear some clothes?

    I will say this though…I have reported the same girl twice now…and the same photo is still being used…

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    CCR Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:22 pm

    Christy: I am quite sure the contest pages on both sides are only for members to see and not open for non members.

    Maybe one reason why they have not an issue.

    One HoF lady did blog some of the contest content that are on your side. Now that reminded me of what is in the offers tabs on many ladies profiles. So maybe no wonder that there are such contests as similar content is offered by ladies?

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    CCR Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:24 pm

    Correction:

    Maybe one reason why they have not been an issue for the management.

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:27 pm

    Oh..Larry is talking about me! How sweet! I NEVER called anyone here names…if you could read…you would see clearly that that is how the surgeon’s office here referred to this site and people here. NOT ME…DUH!

    I merely relayed their response…no harm in being honest…its rather a great quality to have.

    I haven’t personally attacked anyone in my blogs…every statement made was a general comment…I have been here long enough to know what goes and what doesn’t.

    Oh..and when a girl makes it to HOF…blogs about tips and help and rules…makes her knowledgable about the workings of this site. Especially when you have been here WELL over a year.

    Don’t twist words to suit you..read them for what they are and how they are worded…I can’t help if the truth hurts….and if it does hurt when someone is being honest and trying to prevent others from going through the same pain as she had to endure..maybe look in the mirror and take a good look..because chances are..you are one of the ones hurting the ladies chances here.

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    Curvy Alissa HOF Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:34 pm

    Well all I can say is report away.Im not going to argue with anyone here.I dont call people names in the blogs.I am kind and I tell the girls I care about them which I do. If you dont like it well I dont know what to tell you. =) The J’s can probably see that you are angry and they can read my blogs I dont mind.

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    Curvy Alissa HOF Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:38 pm

    Oh yes and thank you J’s for posting this in the news section.=)

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    Larry Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:38 pm

    LOL, I have to admit I get a kick out of how some with a “mission” only see what they want to see. Jayda maybe you should stop twisting words to suit yourself before going off on someone, maybe you should learn to read. I wasn’t talking about you at all to be honest but apparently having an opinion that doesn’t mesh with yours is cause to make unfounded accusations. Better re-read that message you sent after I offended you by saying It wasn’t my problem. Apparently intellectual discussion of a probable solution evades some people.

    What is to stop someone from making a false report or accusation because someone pissed them off or they have a grudge to settle? It’s pretty obvious that its going to happen more than you think knowing peoples basics nature.

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:40 pm

    The blog he is talking about is here in this article…for everyone to read…I have nothing to hide and am not ashamed for relaying what someone else said about this site…what I am ashamed of is being called the same things as others here.

    I am happily married and am def not a porn star…so take it for what you will.

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    I’m not gonna sit here and argue…what I will do is continue to help to make this site a better place..one people can be proud of.

    I have no score to settle with anyone here..as a matter of fact..I would love to see thousands more succeed.

    Yes..that blog you wrote did get under my skin and yes I wrote you a rebutle to said blog…but do I regret it..no.

    People need to really understand the ramifications of their actions and words here…and so for..seems that message isn’t getting across.

    I see what is in front of my face…not fuzzy little bunnies sniffing flowers…

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    Jay: MyFreeImplants Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:58 pm

    Guys/Gals:

    We appreciate all the banter on this topic. It shows that you all do care greatly about improving the community.

    In regards to punishment, I feel we have been quite strong. It depends on the severity of the violation but its not uncommon to see one suspension, and then a deletion upon the next violation. Its on a case by case basis, but we try and be fair. We catch a lot of flack for being as harsh as we are. But as Jim suggests there needs to be consequences (and fear) so people don’t think they can get away with murder. I feel we have a good balance in this regard, but you all are entitled to your opinion.

    As for who the rules are enforced against? Everyone! It is not just the models. For instance, every day we suspend donor profiles that violate the public photo rules. This hurts the community just like the model photos and is not tolerated. Overall, we believe this site has a lot of rules in place to protect women (some think too many) But as always, if you have suggestions for improvement we are all ears.

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    Glory Says: May 08, 2009 at 2:58 pm

    I admire the want of some of the girls to make this a cleaner place to be publicly…and really it saves other girls from being rejected by the doctor of their choice. I’ve read some of the blogs in question and while they include some good advice they do come across as cranky..I just think its because they are so passionate about wanting their dream to happen…

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    Jayda Says: May 08, 2009 at 3:08 pm

    Kim…I agree with you. As you know…I am one that has had to fight tooth and nail and finally after a year…I get to have my surgery.

    So yes…sometimes women here do get cranky(myself included)…I mean for the love of god…we have PMS and to get called something you aren’t (porn stars or whores) on top of all other complications that life hurls at you…really pisses some women off.

    I am very passionate about things I believe in…always have been, always will be. Been this way for almost 29 years. I am blunt…outspoken and never sugar coat just to spare feelings. If I do try to sugar coat…I feel like a liar for not being brutally honest.

    So call me a bitch…call me cranky…I will answer to both. Just never call me a whore..cause I can asure you..that I am not! I don’t wanna see other girls here referred to in that manner either…so I try my hardest to make them understand their actions to have a downfall.

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    Curvy Alissa HOF Says: May 08, 2009 at 3:19 pm

    My subjection J’s is maybe having face shots as the default.That may spare alot of trouble.Maybe not but hey I love seeing pretty smiles from men and women.=)

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    Curvy Alissa HOF Says: May 08, 2009 at 3:26 pm

    *suggestion oopsie lol