This isn’t the normal twenty questions you might see here. Actually, I ’m not sure how many questions will be listed below. The reason for the departure is that Bobo and I have spent over a year together and we realized some of the normal questions just didn’t apply to her.
We joined MFI within days of each other back in August of 2007. She reached her goal on Christmas Eve, 2008. I don’t think she missed many, if any, days during her journey and spent countless hours here.
The following questions were a collaborative effort between Bobo and myself:
How did you find out about MFI?
I learned of MFI i believe it was from Mike and Juliet show but I could be wrong. I signed up less than a week later.
Did you ever consider quitting MFI before you reached your goal? If so, what changed your mind?
The idea of quitting crossed my mind a handful of times. Real life challenges, personal challenges, jealousy of other models seemingly quick HOF rates, insults, how chat sessions would turn, and the amount hours would spend online can get nerve racking. What changed my mind, was the inspiring blog posts by a few models such as Indica G and a few guys who really sent messages of encouragement. It was the supportive messages that filled my heart with joy that carried me through some emotional, or mental times. It was the guys who would send a message “I’m your friend†keep me updated on what’s going on with you.
Did you find any part of your journey particularly enjoyable that gave you the strength, the hope to continue working towards your goal?
Strength came from the guys. It’s the messages not the dollar but what was said, that held the value for me. Some made me cry, the “girly†cry of happiness makes say ahhhhhhh sweet messages of encouragement. One of the best messages, I don’t want anything from you , I am supporting you because I like you and the way you blog. Yeah, those surprise donations wasn’t expecting at all, just for being me. It was the guys who saw past pictures and took the time to know me. Myself, figuring out how to take control of chat session and make jokes back in forth, laugh just enjoy the time together. Keeping an open mind and heart, for those who wanted to share more personal details, of their lives then later, thanking me, for making a positive difference in their lives. Enjoyable part is the ability to laugh, smile and have a good time either by messages or chat. It was the guys who would send a private picture of a flower or some subject nothing to do with MFI or themselves but knew it was something I was interested in. Hope was each K mark, inching closer and closer to amount needed for boobs., and guys reminding HEY look at what you have, it could be worse it could be 0.
How did it feel to have the pursuit of your goal finally over?
I was screaming in delight the moment I saw the notification last donation. I was screaming in my head every time the thought of it for 3 days. The first day I was so emotional my hands were shaking, and I threw up a few hours after knowing. It’s a relief, I don’t have to spend 8-15 hours a day online in MFI, I can do other things now. Almost a life time dream for myself is finally coming true, almost unbelievable, the shock of it all is still new.
For a while, you kept statistics on how your time was spent here. Care to share those stats with the rest of MFI?
My mini stats: (last count 10/29/2008)
Of the 87 people who had donated in 14months, 26 are no longer on the site.
Of the 242 people who have sent at least one message 77 are no longer on the site.
253 people have “added” me, many never said boo.
In the end total message amount came to less than 1500.
Average time in chat was one hour with each person.
8-15 hours a day spent online in MFI, last count average of 3 blog posts a day.
Total of 38 contests created.
Quit counting after 28,000 intro messages sent out in the year of 08.
The only thing that seemed to work well was just not to quit.
What kind of daydreams are you having now about getting brand new breasts?
I wonder what it will be like men looking at my chest, it’s never happened before. Wow, finally get out of the kid department for bikini tops, and shirts in general.
What was the most annoying question you were asked many times here?
“What’s your problem not reaching your goal yet?” My response over and over, I don’t have a problem it’s not my time yet.
What would you like to do after your surgery is done an you have healed?
1. My 20year reunion this coming summer, right now, I’m 1 1/2 cup size smaller than when I was in high school.
2. Vegas baby, in the past got into clubs free but it was 9-11pm and Christmas time. Thinking how much more fun it will be with boobs.
We have been here about the same length of time. What are your most and least favorite changes that have been implemented on MFI since you started?
The private blog setting is my favorite! While 99% of my posts was not erotic it allowed me to remember who my target audience was. Least favorite change, BIG ugly, annoying banners announcing something, yikes to 10 hours of seeing it plastered from my profile page, midnight couldn’t come fast enough not to see it anymore, can we do the time warp again?
[Editor’s note: I think I opened the proverbial can of worms with the following question.]
If you managed MFI, would you make any changes? If so, what changes would you make?
1. When making news announcement such as a scheduled down time, would make it required reading. Member would have the announcement show up on their profile or be required to be clicked then continue to log into profile. It would reduced confusion and multiple questions in public blog forums.
2. In the section a model can change goal amount, add the estimated cost of lift can be 2-6 grand additional blurb sometimes, surgeons suggest lift when going really big, or for more pleasing effect. It would be helpful for some models not yet having a consultation.
3. One click, live support a person maybe a member who is interested in assisting others in technical support, such as how to’s, including embedding videos into blog posts. Personally, I have given out many hours of technical support to guys for their models a handful of occasions. It would reduce the HELP in the public blog posts and people responding with go to news section.
4. News section: Would have the 20Questions in a link or page all of its own, verses dominating the News section.
5. Institute a lottery system, “benefactor†would commit to certain amount of donation, maybe 10.00 then he click a button and it reveals who he gave too. In his profile details it will list lottery:model # and amount. The benefactor can chose to be anonymous to model or have name listed on the end of model. Model’s profile details would list recipient of lottery, the amount and details. Programming would ensure no model would be repeated until all have been gone through and list restarts. Just an idea, in the event a guy is in the mood to give “a surprise me†that could lead to more communications that other wise might not happen.
6. Blogging: I would do away with current blog system. Change to more of a true blog style. Each member would have their own url example http://www.myfreeimplants.com/25362 (my member number) keeping with last updated pages each person just clicks on picture and taken directly to blog/ profile. The member then can make settings such as only viewable by members of MFI, or on friends list, searchable by internet. The ability to customize more to their personalities, think of myspace, as a reference and especially the ability to delete own post. This would reduce the amount of drama in the public blog forums. Instead of star system, threading and comments (keeping with dollar for comment) It is really a 6 degree of separation in MFI anyway, never know who has made friends who whom. There needs to be a bigger emphasis on comments verses stars. Instead of the ego problems and bribes for top blogger positioning, its more like a true blog traffic and comments rule.
7. Blog posts, can be tagged and categorized such as, if a post made about football game then can tag it football, and searchable by other members (if member set settings to be viewable) I believe it will bring more overall involvement and participation that otherwise gets lost in so many blog posts sometimes on same subject.
8. Favorites/ friends : I would make it so models and guys alike can click and drop in an order of their own desire. Such as top 12 favorite list only viewable by them, just making it easier all around.
9. I would use the internet and its technology to shorten the documentation process. Upon a model sign up, she download the starter paperwork, using webcam, picture, then another picture of ID, and electronically send photocopy of ID, and signature then its already on file with MFI. This is the process for adult sites, while webcaming is not taking place within MFI it’s a great way to verify much quicker. Quotes from surgeons can be faxed or emailed to MFI.
10. Mediafire sucks it really does, even when pay for pro account it still sucks. I would change to MFI holding content, library…damn it means more servers, bandwidth, storage, security measures, more programming to be able to give rights to each person to view such content.. it would mean increase in membership costs , figuring out how to increase revenue to make up for additional services.
7 COMMENTS
Leave A CommentYou have some really great ideas, I hope the J’s take notice. Congrats on your goal!
I really enjoyed your blogs a lot.
Congrats to you!!!. I enjoyed reading your questionnaire! Very wise! And I have to agree with you 100% and what you enjoyed during your journey here and what gave you strength! I feel the exact same way! You will be a knock out at your reunion! Have a great time and enjoy your new boobies!
Wow I enjoyed your ideas and I hope the J’s take notice.=) Congrats lady!
Congrats to you!! Loved reading your interview, good idea by you and Walter
Have fun at your reunion with your new boobies 
*hugs* ISLANDGRL
GREAT ideas and congrats girly!!!
Congratulations Bobo! I knew you would make it! Welcome aboard! Next stop?? HOOTERVILLE!!
Always unique. A real treasure. I’m hearing Frank Sinatra singing “I did it my way…” Congratulations and wishing you the best in life.