Comments on: Some insights for newbies (and maybe others)

By: Jayda

Jayda — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 10:35:14 +0000

Very good advice…I totally agree. I also appreciate the great advice you have given me. Can’t complain about the conversation either!

By: Blue Eyes

Blue Eyes — Wed, 16 May 2007 15:27:19 +0000

YOu are such a big sweetheart, you have probably helped each and every girl here at MFI. Your words help so many. I know they helped me and I just wanted you to know that YOU ARE SO SWEET I am so GLAD I MET YOU!!!

XXX Muah,
Blue Eyes

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Sun, 15 Apr 2007 16:52:22 +0000

[...] would make it for them; if they did they changed that attitude to become successful. Read Atis blog post about this. Further more, I don’t talk with all the girls on the top earner list, but I [...]

By: delilah

delilah — Tue, 03 Apr 2007 16:02:30 +0000

Wonderful advice, especially for someone like me who has just joined the site yesterday! Thank you for posting this!

By: Casey

Casey — Tue, 03 Apr 2007 05:24:47 +0000

Atis, I haven’t been here long–well over two months, but you are right on the money with every single point you have made. I will use myself as an example, to maybe give the other girls an insider’s view! (you’re an insider too–its just that I am one of THEM!) I get on MFI a total of about 6 hours a day!! Though that is the minimum number of hours–many days, more. I log on as soon as I get up in the morning, usually once or twice during the day, and then most of my MFI time is after 9pm–mainly because that is when my family is in bed and I can devote the time for myself and my guys!! When first getting here, I messaged every single person on the Benefactor list. That is the hard part. Why? Because you learn what kind of messages get responses and what kind of messages don’t. I kept changing the style of my messages to see what got the biggest response, the whole time remaining ME and not someone else. Whether it is your wording, or your tone in writing, or your grammar–all these things matter. So–if you are not getting ANY responses, there is a reason…and I would look really close at what you are messaging them. Don’t get me wrong, you will get a low turn out of responses–however, you WILL get responses eventually if you keep at it and do what works for you AND still be yourself in the messages. Now…when it comes to percentages on totals here–once again–Atis is completely right. I just got my calculator out and of my total—–842 comes from messages and 1296 from donations—guess what? Exactly 40% from messages—which is why I spend at least six hours a day here! Now–on to the Friends part. Establishing bonds with people on your Friends list is the KEY and I will stress….the KEY to success at MFI. Yes–you will have the occasional person who would like to “buy” pictures, etc., but do not expect that your success will come from this. I have over 275 guys on My Benefactor list–however talk to 10 or 12 of them and have developed strong friendships. Of them I have received donations continuously from about 8. I don’t know where I’d be without these Friends. I mean–they probably make up almost all of my donations–I have got a few donations from “strangers” and I say that because those were from people wanting pictures and yes, I was happy to oblige. But without my strong bonds with my little group of FRIENDS I would have no success here at MFI. So Atis, I applaud your post–you are such a smart and observant man—as are the other two men that have blogged, Drone and CCR!!

By: Cindy

Cindy — Sun, 01 Apr 2007 01:42:19 +0000

Wow, pretty good blog you have here. I started this site thinking it would be fun to be on here and well what the hell try to achieve my goal. It’s harder than I thought and honestly I haven’t signed on in a few days because I don’t think i’m up for it. When i see that some girls have made it out there it pushes me to continue but I really don’t know. I’d love to get to know someone on here and have a great conversation, whatever they want to talk to but they just go off to lets see some pictures. Guys there might be some girls out there that don’t mind but a few of us, like myself, find that a bit rude. I know im on an implant website so I should probably shut up but I guess maybe this website is just not for me.

By: Juicy

Juicy — Sat, 31 Mar 2007 22:27:45 +0000

Well I know that I am one of the 2 that has made it that Atis has helped! I am honored to have meet him and for him to help me meant a lot to me! Atis is so right about what he says! What might work for one won’t work for another! Yes a lot of the girls have tired things on here and don’t look at that you are copying them becasue it might not work for them but work for you. After all your not here to impress the girls but the guys so You have got to do what appeals to them! Yes some of the girls will get jealous because you are doing what they are and so forth but so what they can get over it…You are here for you and your dreams! Most the girls here have issues with themselves and well it comes out all in the wrong ways if they see a “threat”! But Atis said it best “Just blogging and saying you are available to chat will not elicit many responses, if any. Further, guys did not sign up out of the goodness of their hearts to give money to girls they do not know. Keep that in mind as you approach guys. They are not obligated to give or even message you. You should feel thankful when they do.” When you post a blog make it just as meaningful as a personal message to the guys! Yes most girls read them but hey so do the guys and they really can get to know you more through the blogs than in the messages! The blogs I think at this point are starting to become boring to the guys! No I am not saying this to everyone, but mainly to the new girls! For example and not pointing anyone out but Skyler Rain’s blogs….she lets the guys know more about her on a personal level now. Yes we were all guilty of the whole one liner blogs or so forth but hey sometimes we have brain farts to and instead of blogging…just don’t blog! I know some girls say they feel that have to blog at least 2 to 5 times a day other wise they won’t get noticed…but in all fact you don’t have to blog that much! Blog at least once a day and well the guys can click on your name and see you last 200 blogs!
But well said Atis, well said babe!
Juicy

By: freckledcutey

freckledcutey — Sat, 31 Mar 2007 08:28:30 +0000

Agreed fully.Atis you did a wonderful job. You and I may not converse all that much but when we do I enjoy it fully.I may not always have the right things to say but I do speak whats on my mind and usually try to make sense of it.Hard task that is.I have noticed that I have tried to do things, just so I can keep your attention.But not really being myself I find that boring.I just want to be me and want your help because you like me for me. I spend alot of hours on this site and try my best…I’m here till the end and the brand new begining…

I think that this site is a rock’n idea and I wish the best of luck to both sides..The girls and the guys….

By: Ian

Ian — Sat, 31 Mar 2007 03:37:46 +0000

Very well said. I would add that you may experience dry spells. If that happens, do loose heart, some times we get busy, and it may take a while to get back to you. DO NOT take it personal.

I wish they could sticky this post, so that it’s always on the top of the news.

By: Skyler Rain

Skyler Rain — Sat, 31 Mar 2007 00:33:36 +0000

Great Blog Atis!! You are one of my fav bene’s and what all you touched on here is so true. I’m sure I can say I am guilty of writing a lame blog or two from time to time. You hit it on the head when you say you have to find new andcreative ways to get all your guys attention along with alot of time and effort…or as some of us have described it as a second job.

I think one of the most important thing that needs to be addressed is to just be yourself!! I think that is one of the biggest things that will contribute to your success on here. No one wants to talk with a fake person or a lier either. Let the boobs be the only fake thing!!=)

So nice to be able to hear some feedback from you guys for a change!! Great idea MFI team!!